Family (Mutual Understanding & Acceptance)
Mutual understanding and acceptance, in my opinion, is the second most important element in a family (the first one's love xD)
Before we can talk about being one BIG family, we must first understand each other. Our needs, feelings, likes, dislikes, dream, goal, principle, emotions, conditions and more importantly - our base line.
The base line, or last straw, if you will, is the line that we should never, ever cross, let alone step on. But one thing's for sure, we should always push our base line, further and further away, to be open to others, see the good in others, by not being blinded by selfish thoughts. =)
In order to understand, a voicing out is needed. After all, not everybody knows what you're thinking or how you're feeling deep down inside. If you don't say it, nobody will know it.. Nobody nobody but you.. xD
Other members should also be understanding. Nothing good can come out of a one-way request. If one member asks another one to change change change without truly understanding his/her state, condition, feeling, difficulties, unhappiness will result. =( Time, is often what everybody needs. Sometimes a little smile, a warm hello, or a helping hand can really help lots. ^^
Junior members of the family, never forget who you truly are. Respect your seniors, love your fellow siblings, be humble, the basics are usually the most important part in your life. =>
Senior members, never forget your duties. To be a role-model to those younger than you, taking care of them, leading, guiding, helping and welcoming. =D
Last but not least, members of the family must accept one another as they are, as who they are. Not despite of our shortcomings but BECAUSE of our shortcomings, we accept one another. We are imperfect and different from one another, and that's what makes us unique. xD
Before we can talk about being one BIG family, we must first understand each other. Our needs, feelings, likes, dislikes, dream, goal, principle, emotions, conditions and more importantly - our base line.
The base line, or last straw, if you will, is the line that we should never, ever cross, let alone step on. But one thing's for sure, we should always push our base line, further and further away, to be open to others, see the good in others, by not being blinded by selfish thoughts. =)
In order to understand, a voicing out is needed. After all, not everybody knows what you're thinking or how you're feeling deep down inside. If you don't say it, nobody will know it.. Nobody nobody but you.. xD
Other members should also be understanding. Nothing good can come out of a one-way request. If one member asks another one to change change change without truly understanding his/her state, condition, feeling, difficulties, unhappiness will result. =( Time, is often what everybody needs. Sometimes a little smile, a warm hello, or a helping hand can really help lots. ^^
Junior members of the family, never forget who you truly are. Respect your seniors, love your fellow siblings, be humble, the basics are usually the most important part in your life. =>
Senior members, never forget your duties. To be a role-model to those younger than you, taking care of them, leading, guiding, helping and welcoming. =D
Last but not least, members of the family must accept one another as they are, as who they are. Not despite of our shortcomings but BECAUSE of our shortcomings, we accept one another. We are imperfect and different from one another, and that's what makes us unique. xD
Love by Yours Truly,
Brian xD
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